I told DH I was finished too. We had made a decision that we wanted to be pg. score the end of 2010 if we were having another one. 2010 passed and in April last year I decided that I did want another. Poor DH was a bit shocked and took a bit of convincing but after a lot of talk about positives, negatives, our lifestyle etc he decided another bub would be great.

Good luck chatting to your DH about it, it might take some time to get his head around it but keep talking!!