You are NOT a useless mum.

Having BFing troubles does not make you useless - otherwise most of the womesn I know, myself included, would all be useless mums.

Having a baby who needs a bit more feeding & help settling to sleep doesn't mean you are useless either, especially at her age.

Ar didn't settle into a nice kind of pattern or self-settle until she was older than your little girl, & she is the most placid chilled out baby I have had so far. The others were all much older - months older.

It might do hergood to stay home for a bit if you are thinking she doesn't like going out, but I know how awful it is to be stuck at home!Can you leave her with someone for half an hour while you duck out to the shops?

You are doing a great job. It's never easy & it DOES get better I promise
The one thought that kept me going sometimes was - everything changes - and this will too.