Im a little concerned you feel you need to have a mummy label. Parenting comes in all different colours and smell's...we all tread down the same road, some have more pot holes and rocks then others but we all end up at the same destination in the end.

Please dont feel like you have to put the added pressure to perform to a certian standard. Being a mum is big enough 'label' for anyone in my eyes.
I guess your right maz, perhaps its my own gulit with everything we are going through getting Monsta assesed for High functioning autism, I guess im questioning myself so anything feels lke judgment at the moment