Thanks everyone!! I'm pretty sure she'll change a lot before the next bub too. She's already changed a lot over the last couple of months. Can I ask another quick question....I'm contemplating putting DD into family daycare for a couple of part days each week to give me a chance to rest while I'm pregnant and to give me some less chaotic time with the new baby. Do you think that separation can make them more clingy? My instinct has been a bit like Artechim's until now. Be there and eventually she'll move away of her own accord but I also wonder if a bit of space might do us both good.