She never falls asleep during the day after a feed, only if i feed from one side, which doesnt fill her up and she just wakes shortly after anyway How do I wash myself and hair with her in the shower? I have a feeding pillow so she is laying down when I feed her anyway, I can't spend my days laying around in bed feeding, I will loose my mind. It's apparent that nothing is working, but I appreciate the advice. God, what I would give for a baby that just sleeps after 15 minutes of settling after feeds.