Oh hun HUGE hugs, I couldn't read and not post (seems to be the norm around here for me these days! )

Anyway back to Livvy, babe I don't think you need to do anything and the CC people should be b!tch slapped for making you feel like you are a failure and letting her down. You do NOT need to have a structured education program for her babe, not at all. We do all our learning with daily things just like you, counting in daily things like how many buttons on her shirt that she has chosen to wear (don't you love their combos ), looking at colours, Izzy oftens mixes hers up too, singing songs from videos and cd's and generally just learning through playing and having fun while doing it.

I agree with Trillian that if you are still worried about her speech then maybe get an assessment done, if there is nothing found no harm done and if there is an issue then you can get on top of it early.

Just keep gently encouraging her babe and when she uses one word for something like a car add more words like "that's right, BLUE car" etc. Huge massive hugs for you and FWIW I have a gf whose little girl is 8 mths younger than ours, and James has more words than her. ALl MCHN's etc have just said she hears everything, understands everything is getting there slowly and is getting there at her own pace.