Perhaps your right, perhaps I should just take a breathe and chill out. Maybe when we chill out he will too.- that approach sure has worked well with his eating for the most part, now he eats as much as a mouse which is better then before
So I'll focus on the good stuff, the big boy stuff, give extra cuddles, spend some time with just 1 of the boys each day and hope they both start to feel better and DS2 grows out of this "phase"
Yeah I could write a book on the issues with my MIL and probably her on me but then alot of relationships with family are like that hey!

Thanks ladies