What do you do at bedtime now?
We introduced supper as a bedtime filler, which worked well with DS. It wouldn't be that unusual for a kid her age to still have milk overnight, so maybe she just needs 'something' in her tummy? What do you reckon?
I'm quite sympathetic to the 'whatever works' parenting approach We used to give DS bananas at night after I night weaned. (I should have just continued feeding him, but that's a whole other story.) Thankfully, by 19 months or so he didn't need it any more. I think the main issue with it is the mess, as well as possible dental problems from eating at night.