It really is great to know there are others going through the same thing!

I bought myself an ergo the other day and it is the best thing I could of done it is super comfy and I can get things done while we are both happy!

DS2 is also happy to play in his walker for 15 mins or so a couple of times a day and also DS1 and DS2 are starting to interact a lot more which keeps him occupied for a little while too, it is really cute to watch!