It's such a personal decision isn't it. DH and I always agreed to have about 4-5years between ours if we were going to have a second and so far I am really happy with itbut I didn't have any baby craving until just before we started ttc for this one.
I really love how DS is looking forward to this pg and baby, he is looking forward to being a big brother. Also we don't have to worry about rushing through carseat to booster or buying two carseats and DS is independant and happy to help with things.
At times I wished we had them closer together when you hear about siblings that play and share together as DS is very much an only child and I sometimes feel guilty that he doesn't have a playmate but I really couldn't have coped with any closer together and now that he is older we have school friends over to play so it works out well.
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