I agree too Danni, also I think it's another judgement from others that us as Women & Mothers ( and future mothers to be) can really live without!

We are constantly judged & why, why cant we all make our choices for what is right for us as our own family & individuals without having to be made to feel guilty or pressure to conform to someone else's beliefs because that's what thay want & have chosen for themselves & their family???...

I would never say to anyone with 1 child that I disagree, or think they've made a wrong choice or are poor parents for choosing 1, I'd never make a comment to any family who choose to have 10 kids that their choices are wrong as they are selfish or havent thought of finances or anything else that society believes!
I believe it is wrong & rude for me to make such judgement of another person.

I think each person should be allowed the right to make their own choices about when, how, why & how many children they choose or dont choose to have without worrying about what someone else will think...

I have close friends IRL & thru BB that are trying for baby #1 & some have been trying for many many years! I can asssure you that not one of them would ever want myself or anyone else they care about to stop having children to make their lives better, do you honestly believe that people facing problems concieving 1 baby would be happier that I stopped at 1 or 2???

It's not like there are only 300 babies allowed to be created in a year & so if I stop at 1 or 2 someone else can have my spares???


Sorry for my emotive post I am just baffled