I am also confused at the question & why you would think having 1, 2, 3, 4 or more kids would label someone Mothes at not being happy??

I never was wanting children, just hadnt thought to settle down & live in one place for long enough to be settled enough for a family!
But then I was pregnant with Maddy & I felt this overwhelming feeling/sensation of preotection & love... Then when she was born & placed on my chest, I realised then what truly loving someone felt like! I felt so tiny in a massive world all of a sudden...
I adore Maddison with every inch of my body, heart & soul & did so for 7 years without being able to create a sibling for her, then finally after years of trying, a Miscarriage that broke our families heart we finally were bleesed with another child & once again as Indah was birtrhed & delivered onto my chest I was overcome with love for her...

I am truly grateful for both of our precious, adorable daughters, but I would love to have another child & if we are blessed with another child Male or Female I would be eternally grateful to our gods for blessing us with another person to love..

It is not a need to keep reproducing it is because I love my husband & we love our girls very much & we have more love to share!!!


As I said I am not sure what the question is behind your post, but I too am intrigued as to why you have decided 2 is your limit... Or why anymore than 2 in your eyes/thoughts is judged with your comment of ..
i.e they feel the need to almost brag that they're having 4 yet they've only just popped out no. 2?