Thanks for the replies guys, I have had a good nights sleep and regrouped so hoping today is a better day. I am also wondering whether we have some attachment probs with feeding which is causing wind and him not getting a decent feed, so he is hungry etc. I will ring my MCHN today and get some advice from her as she is also LC. I am glad I am not the only one going through this, and big hugs to everyone else having a tough time at the moment.