Sorry i wouldnt - i really dont like the idea of a stranger coming into my home by themselves and looking after JOsh. But i guess i have lots of family and people that live near me that could babysit, so it is hard for me to imagine what i would do in your situation. I think you do need quality time with your DH and it is so important. At the end of the day just find out everything you can about this person before you say yes!