Leash - I'm sorry if I'm always "Shel bashing" but really - she does have to pull her finger out and help with the "parenting" of this child.

She may not be the one feeding Jazz - but she has three things Jazz wants - a chest to lay her head on, arms to cuddle her with, and lips to kiss her.

And yes, DH does get up to DS - still - all the time - I never go in there anymore - and when DD wakes, he goes to the kitchen and gets her bottle and warms it up while I get DD out of the bassinette next to the bed. Then he starts feeding her while I go to the toilet... he does this and then goes back to sleep (if she doesn't start screaming after the feed like she did last night!!).

This is during the working week though - on weekends he will feed her and let me sleep. Plus, he also gets up with DS when he gets up EARLY and lets me sleep in every morning (well till 6 anyway..lol)

I don't have a superman for a husband - I just have a partner that knows what parenting means - SHARING the responsibility - and doesn't just hand the babies back to me. (Hmm.. that could be because he knows what reaction he would get from me if he did it... )

I hope she gets better for you hon, I really do.