Hi-my DP was actually pretty awesome with this (though admitedly we bottle fed after the first couple of weeks)/ With DD we alternated night time feeds and changes, and it was a godsend for me. Even now that she's 2, he's the one that goes to her on the odd occassion where she wakes through the night. When I was bfing, dp tended to get up with me as I struggled to get her attached by myself, so he'd help me with that, then do the change and settle her. Pretty lucky, I know Hoping he's as good the second time around..