Yeah, I have decided not telling him I'm in labor is the easiest. I don't think he even knows when I am actually due. Haha.

Thanks for everyones advice. I really just wanted to put my mind at ease for this evening knowing he can't legally FORCE me to let him there, or be there legally without me wanting him there.

It sucks about the drugs & alcohol not affecting his custody rights. :-(
And everyone is probably right, he won't get off his ass and get around to doing anything about it anyway. So I should stop stressing...Lol.

Any other advice is greatly appreciated. :-)