I have had 2 unwanted c-sections and yes I do feel like I have missed out on having a VB. They are my feelings though and if someone, like yourself, opts to have a c-section after previously having one, then that is your choice. I was made to feel bad enough, that I was wanting something silly by fighting for a VBAC 2nd time around. It was horrid, I don't think any other mother should be made to feel that way for making an informed choice