I should probably qualify that I answered the post from the POV of a VBer, and I am very anti-unneccessary intervention. I haven't had a c-section and I feel very strongly about people people's opinions disempowering others. That will always get my goat! You only get true peace when you are true to yourself. No-one else counts, except your children, and they are the only ones you ever have to answer to, my love