You just described my last pregnancy. It does suck.

One thing I will tell you is that I had a natural drug free birth (not much choice given my babies like to coome quickly) and the labour was alot easier then my other two and almost straight away my SPD and other issues started to improve.

I know c-section sounds easier now, but I have watched others recover from c-sections and I would not wish it on myself or anyone: and after undergoing 'keyhole' abdominal surgery, I would now go through 10 natural births then a c-section: provided I had the choice to do so. recovery after surgery is not fun, particularly when you have to look after not just your newborn baby, but other kids as well.