I didn't realise how much I needed my mummy until I was well into the throes of labour!! DH was under strict instruction not to call his parents until *after* baby was born (I had issues with FIL and didn't want him barging in and ruining everything) and we didn't feel it was fair for them to miss out while my parents got to be there so we attempted to go it alone. Then when I was in labour, I just realised I NEEDED my mum by my side to hold my hand - DH was a fantastic support partner, but I just wanted my mummy and had to have her with me.. at least you're realising now that you want your mum with you so arrangements can be made in advance! I don't think it's crazy at all Each birth is different and so is each support team - and even if they're the same people, they support in different ways for different births so if you want your mum with you for this one, it's a good thing that you know it now