I lost a tiny bit of my plug and just casually mentioned it to DH - he looked really nervous and so we went home... then he made me sit on the couch and 'rest' which i couldnt do as i just wanted the place tidy (terrible case of nesting) then he cooked me an almighty dinner that probably brought n my labour, i was sooooo full!!!

Anyway 3am contractions woke me... i was vomiting at 4am and called the hossy as they were 3 mins apart. 5am walked into the bedroom, shook him gently awake and said, im pretty sure i am in labour, now go back to sleep i will wake you when i need you, i just needed to let you know... so he did.
An hour later i walked in the bedroom with a cup of tea and said 'you have to wake up now' i tried sitting next to him but the contactions were too strong, so i just paced.... i was totally packed and ready to go... so i informed him that he needed to shower and shave NOW as i didnt want him looking crap all day! LOL

It was weird telling him - i think i almost laughed, like it was a joke, dunno - it felt weird saying it.
I wrote him a letter a couple of weeks before hand, reminding him that i loved him, apologiseing in advance incase i was horrid and reinforning my wishes... it was great to kick him into the mood of 'we are having a baby'!!!

Good luck