Thank-you ladies

Arimeh - you're so right! When i think something might hurt, it almost always does because i tense up aswell, and yep! - I had an incling that it might hurt, so i wasn't fully relaxed... Hopefully that might explain a little, next time if i relax it might be a better experience. I remember DH doing the peri massage when i was preg with DD, and he hurt me too, that was the last time we did it! haha. Peri massage buddies sounds like a plan! I'm sure when we start tonight it won't be the most joyous massage, but i'm hoping i stick to it this time! Do you use an oil to help the massage? I don't have any here so thinking lube... ??

the pixie and cookalooks - i'll definately keep an eye out for that book. Can you buy it in regular books stores do you know? Or is it really only online?? Just wondering cause i'm not sure how long it'll take to get them delivered if its only online. I got 4 birthing books at the start of this preg and they took 6 weeks!! (from the US tho and i got standard shipping). Sounds great tho, i love reading my books so i'm definately keen!

Becsbub - yeah great if you're not having a baby! haha. Even my DH commented something along the lines of "gee its nice and tight.. but you gotta get a baby out of there in a couple of weeks!". I'll try doing it backwards.. do you mean... doggy ??? hahaha omg!! Yep this thread is surely getting into some detail! Thank you for your kind words and support xx

Teagz - lol - yes i agree, definatley getting a bit raunchy!! but its making me smile - which is great!

Anna - thanks for the tips. What type of oil did your MW use?? The hot washers sound like a good idea too. I'm sure DH wouldn't mind doing those things for me when the time comes, he's not really phased by things like that.