Thanks for the quick replies!

Im in the process of writing a birth plan, ive looked up some on here to get ideas on how to word things..as my way of puttting it seemed bossy and rude!

I have my sister coming in with me in the birth. She knows what i want to do so hopefully she can be my voice without seeming rude too!

My partner knows roughly what i want. But unfortunately he is very much like "listen to the professionals" we dont have the strongest relationship (but thats a whole other story!)

So im glad im having my sister with me. And will have my birth plan written up asap to have with me too!!