omg Nic, all for dinner on the first night!! I would cry, lol.

Yes Trillian, that's what I'm scared of. I don't want ppl to come stay. I can just imagine them thinking they're helping by looking after the baby and giving advice. I want to learn myself!! It wouldn't be my mum staying it would be people from NSW (I'm in Brisbane). But hopefully they're not stupid enough to think they would be welcome to stay at that time. I think I might get my mum to suss out what they're plans are for me and set them straight, lol.