I have to say I'm still in disbelief that other family member think they can make this experience about them. They've had/will have their chance.
There is nothing more overwhelming, precious than becoming a mother/father (or as tan says, brother/sister) and you should be able to enjoy that.

It is 'special' to become a grandparent.
It is a 'label' to become an aunt or uncle.
It is 'exciting' when a colleague has their baby.
None of these people have any RIGHT.

It is your decision to make that baby, and because you have it makes them lucky to have it as a part of their lives, therefor privelege!
But when you have created, carried and birthed that baby.
You are the only one with that RIGHT.

Just the way it is your right to name that child.

Gosh this makes me fume, seriously, where do they get off?

Off my soapbox now.