I spoke to my friend and told her that I wouldn’t like ti if she were in the wating room as if something goes wrong and it is a long labour then I will be exhausted and I will need time to rest and bond with my bub before I see anyone. She just looked at me and laughed. She said that she was going to be in the waiting room and it was all ok because she would just wait until I was ready to see people. She just doesn’t understand!!!! Grrrrrrrr!!!! So I have decided that I will not be telling her when I go into labour. Lets just hope that I am now where near her when my waters brake hahaha.

Another thing that has annoyed me is that DP’s dad announced that him and his Girl Friend wanted to be informed when labour started so that they could be there to see bub when he or she comes out. He said they have a right to see their Grand child. What does he mean their grandchild I really hope that he doesn’t think my child will be calling him mistress nana or anything. Sorry but I am really close to DP’s mum and He cheated on her with this women and there is no way my child would be calling that cow grandma. Sorry if I sound harsh but I have only met her like 3 or 4 times and all those times she was a rude snob to me, she wouldn’t say anything to me but when I tried to make conversation around the group she would cut me off and start talking over top of me.

Sorry if I sound rude guys I am just really annoyed at all these people just assuming we will want them there. I know DP’s dad is going to be on his back about making me change my mind but it is not going to happen. We are not goignt o tell anyone except my birthing partners and that’s it. Maybe about an hour or so after the birth but lets hope I have him around 6 in the afternoon so no one can visit then 