I feel for you, similar things have been said at certain times in my life too and they must realise you are not on anyones "side" but your own.... I really thought having my Dad would be ok in the first week but it ended up that I hated it and resented the intrusion...I was trying to bf and was just wanting me and dh to bond with our baby and a 3rd person was imo crashing our party. You can cope in the first weeks without them if thats what you want. I actually think it would have been sooo much easier on our own, eating when we could rather than making sure everyone was happy. I just feel really strongly about this as you dont need to enrtertain anyone, they should respect your personal space and get accommodation elsewhere...all of them..