Absolutely Fi I agree 100% and like shannon said you are a good friend

Deb I completely understand your fears and they are valid to you I think you're doing a great thing by trying to figure out whats the best option for you. I hope you can get some advice from Dr's.

Have you read any of the suggested VBAC books? Contacted birthrites?

Goodluck!

*hugs*
Cailin