Whilst this decision is a very personal one, and at the end of the day regardless of what anyone says here its something you need to feel comfortable with. I really do think that the chances of stillbirth are extremely low with a VBAC probably only slightly higher than a regular vag birth. If a vag birth is something you want there are people who are trained to help counsel you about your fears. I think its something you can play by ear as has been said, you can always see an ob about a vbac now, and then later down the track if you decide you want a c/s or that you need one for whatever reason you can. At least that way you are keeping your options open.

If you want to chat hon I'm always here.

*hugs*
Cailin