I have been scared with all 3 about giving birth. Not the actual labour part, I knew I could handle that, but the actual giving birth part scared me. I didn't have the confidence to believe in myself. Even when birthing DD3, I think because it happened so quick (8cm - delivery was 2 minutes), I didn't even get a chance to realise that I could do it on my own. I would have loved to have had a homebirth, but I was too scared of the birth.