Thanks ladies, I'm glad I'm not the only person who feels this way, I was starting to think it was very selfish of me.
Relle, having a birth attendant in with you I think is a great idea, at least you won't know them, it would be like having an extra mid wife. I might discuss this with DH and see if he would like someone this time to help him, but I was fine, just having him and the mid wife and the doc that came in time to time, but I'll see what he thinks. I just don't want anyone I know seeing me during labour, and I really just want it to be an experience between DH and myself. Thanks for your support.
Tracey, I wish I could be like you, then my family would all be happy with me!!!
Mrsmac and Rachael, thank you for your support and making me feel better.