Who are you having in the delivery room?

[*Elle*]

I had my mum and dh with me for DS and then with DD my mum was al the hospital with ds and dh was with me my mum came in with ds right after dd was born.

this time I have a friend who is begging me to be there, I just dont want her to be there though. I think its for the reason Kelly said, I dont feel all that comfortable with her in that sort of way so it will just make things happen differently as I wont be fully relaxed, she is so bloomin forcefull though I think I will have to offend her soon as she just does not get it,
I will have either my DH or my mum with me this time as DH now works a job wehre he is away for 3 weeks then home for 10 days and then away again and so on so there is a chance he wont be able to be there, I hope he can though I really sont want him to miss out on such a special time we should share together.

You are not being selfish at all I think its great they all want to be there for you but they need to understand your need to do this your way, it not up to anyone else who comes in its up to you and it makes me mad when people get angry about not being invited in cause really why should they unless you want them to its quite self explanitary realy dont you think LOL,

any way good luck and yeah as someone else said 'stick to your guns'