It is hard, I cried the first time DS had a bottle.. and that was MY milk.. By the time he had someone else's milk he was being tube fed and I felt like such a failure anyway, I didn't care who's milk it was... I just found comfort in the fact it was still booby juice Even if it did have 'fortifier' in it lol..

Just remember PZ this wont be forever...I bet I'll be hearing stories of tandem feeding in a few months time