Well that tops it, I know he didn't mean it to be in the way I'm taking it, but i can't help it.
I'm trying at this feed with DD and as usual she's crying and getting upset, and DH says, "this is being so cruel to her!!"
This is why I took my disinterested partner to the ABA Breastfeeding class, so this is one thing he is interested in and knows how important breastfeeding is. Only a man would say something like that!!

There's lots of options, we had a Mum speak to us, a very brave woman who was doing part formula and part breastfeeding, we looked at nipple shields and all kinds of things.