No. Given that when #2 comes along I will have to give up nuts and cow milk products (read: no chocolate brazil nuts!) then I wouldn't trust another woman's milk. It's so easy to "forget" a milk-free diet in the morning for your coffee, or buying a cake when you're out and about... so I wouldn't want to get cross with someone who wanted to do something kind for my child.

Sure, some women would go on a dairy and nut free diet to feed my child. That is very generous of them. But I would worry about how their diet would affect MY sleep too much! That and having a baby in pain from one wrong snack.

Plus, me being the only person to feed DS significantly alleviatd the worst of the "PND". Bottles made it a lot worse. So I don't know if I could haandle it emotionally.