Need some advice & support!! New breastfeeding mother....

[Janie]

Hi Ren, congrats on your bub! I know you'll get there with the BFing, as you're so determined I haven't read the other replies, so forgive me if I repeat things, and I'm sorry to be brief.

*What are her nappies like? How many wet and dirty in 24 hours?
*How many feeds is she having in 24 hours? It's really important that she's having 8-12 feeds a day. I know how hard that is with a baby who doesn't *demand feed*, no matter how hard you try!
*I get what you mean about her arms waving around, but I'm thinking that wrapping her might be interfering with her positioning......you need to make sure that you follow "chin to breast, chest to chest". Make sure her little body is tucked right into yours, and that her chin is tucked down into your breast, leaving her nose clear. What position are you feeding her in?
*It really does sound like you have some attachment issues. Did you see an LC in hossy? Can you organise to see one now? If so, do it sooner rather than later, a good LC will make the world of difference to you.
*Can I ask why you are expressing?
*You do need to make sure you're well-hydrated, but you don't need to overdo it, simply drink according to thirst.
*Please don't worry about the amounts you express!!!!!! I know that's easier said than done, but there is nothing to be gained by stressing about it.
*Definitely call the ABA helpline 1800 mum2mum
*I had some similar issues to you, and Barb suggested jumping into bed with my baby for the weekend, and STAYING there. Feeding whenever he looked sideways at me. I only needed a day, it worked so well (which was saying something, my DS was a VERY sleepy prem). I suddenly had a hungry, demanding, baby.
*Hopefully Barb will be along soon to help you out (we love you Barb!)
*Hang in there, you're doing a fabulous job honey One day things will be easier, and you'll hardly remember this time

Sorry to be all over the place Ren, I hope that all makes sense.