Dirty Nappies b/fed babies can go up to 2 weeks without doing a poo, I usually find that it happens when they are growing and are using more of your milk to do so.

I do think that putting the pump away will be a good idea, like you said just feed more often and she will get more/make more.

With her hands can you tuck one under your arm/breast and then you will only have one to contend with.

Julian for the first month or so use to feed for up to an hour per feed so I would say that it is normal and he also use to have his eyes closed most of the feed, the sucking is like a comfort thing, as long as you are getting fast sucks at the beginning and long slower sucks after let down then it is fine.

You are doing a great job sweety keep it up .

hugs xoxo