hi , im thinking about a repeat c/s but cant stand the tought of having 2 kids and never being in labour kwim .... my hops is vbac and repeat c/s friendly ..... each visit i have they want an answer as what will i be going for , i just go blank because i dont really know , a doc went ahead and booked a c/s date and said , dont worry its a tentative one , you can change your mind ..... and i have about 1000 times .....

what they wont do is give me an internal exam before my due date .... can request one ???

my "plan" for want of a better word is :

to have an internal on the 38 wk visit or 39 week visit as i will be 39 weeks on the 11th aug which iS when the c/s is shecdualed ... IF my cervix is thinning and ripening then i will forgo the c/s and concentrate on labour , if not then i will do the c/s ... as i dont want to have false hope and get an induction only to have c/s ...

it probably doesnt make sense , i dont really mind if i do have one , i just want to feel labour and contractions ... kwim