NJD: thank you so much for that info and im so glad that you were able to BF, it really is my biggest concern! I have been desperatly trying to get information on C/S but unfortunately all the literature is on how to avoid one, which is great, unless you are having one Ive had 3 obs and a midwife tell me its really not a good idea to have a vb including my family and friends who remember well the monthes of agony afterwards so i think cs is really the best option. WOuld really appreciate if anyone knew of some factual CS information for best recovery etc.
Once again thank you so much njd for sharing your story with me