Hi Alan
Thanks for that, it is very similar to info i have already assessed, i actually titled this wrong as i havent had a previous cs my son was born by VB but i had 3rd degree tear, he popped his lung and i went on to almost a year of infection and rehabilitaion and things are still not 100% almost 5 years later. I have been told this is an anatomical problem ( very short perineum) like i said by 3 obs and 1 midwife. I have had to have 18 monthes of fertility treatment to fall pregnant again and also had an ectopic at the end of last year. This will be my last pregnancy as 2 children is all i ever wanted. All this said i have pondered over VB and CS for the whole time i have been trying to concieve and i study natural medicine so medical intervention is just not something that i wanted, but the 5 % chance of ending up with a coloscopy bag is really swaying my decision. All that said i know CS has a bad rep i know all the risks and i feel i have done my home work on this, i really want info that can help me get in the best possible shape before the cs and how to get better as quickly afterwards and as i have said to be able to BF my baby is the biggest issue !!! i even down loaded a copy of the The cesarean booklet and its full of the info you gave me. i really do feel i need support in my "choice" and unfortunately there is none out there except from the women who have been through it.