Hi girls.
Just thought i'd come in and say hi, I had an emergency CS with my DD after 15 hours of labour due to various reasons. This time around i was hoping for a VBAC but wasnt really getting much support from anyone. I went and had my 34 week check up today and have been advised on having another CS so it is booked in for the 13/11 only 4 weeks to go. I am in 2 minds about this. I am excited and relieved to know i will not be having an emergency one again etc, i feel more in control but on the other hand i'm already feeling like a failure esp as i was keen on VBAC i am also worried about the recovery as my DD will be jsut 20 months. DH works for himself so the more time he takes off the harder financially it will be for us and i dont want to burden him. I have heard that a scheduled CS vs an emergency is often alot more positive and recovery wise may be easier......not sure about that but i guess we'll see. Well thats it from me just thought i'd share with you all as you may all understand a bit more than ppl who havent had Previous CS or electing to have one. I am scarred of been judged IYKWIM for taking what ppl seem to think is the easy way out.