no probs bill's in the mail yes then you'll have to start all over again. Actually I thought I had resolved my issues until I found out I was pg again then it all came back to the suface. This thread and the fact that I have really talked it out lately has really helped me, I'm feeling alot more confident and excepting of what's to come... ha ha I say this at 26wks wonder if I'll feel the same at 39wks