Thanks guys! We woman are strange folk, aren't we? I know that it was best for baby and in a strange way I do feel that now that I don't have a choice in the matter, I can better prepare myself for the next one. You know, build up some courage
I also feel that I was not given the time to make a better choice about the dr cutting me the way that he did, ok, it did go very quickly (half an hour from the now to the table) but he told me afterwards that I can only have three c/s? Told me that he would not cut me for a fourth child. Something about scaring and tissue damage? Did not really listen. Lucky for him, after dd, we said that we only want two, but what if I wanted seven children?
ps. great thread!