i agree, u need to research. I ended up with an emergency c/sec. It was fine while they were doing it etc, but aftwards.. omg. OWWWWWWW. U need help sitting up (as they cut through your stomach muscles), u need help walking, feeding bub, showering, going to the toilet etc etc. I cant say im not trying to put u off, coz in a way, i am. There is no way i will have another c/sec. Its been over 12 months and its still numb down there from all the nerves that were cut. Not good.

So at the end of the day, its up to u. All i can do is advise on things i have been through myself. I have no idea what its like to have a natural birth, so i can gve my opinion on that one.

good luck