HI hun, I have had both natural and c/s deliveries. Although when in labour and going through the whole birthing thing seems scarey, once that bub comes it is all over. Yet with the c/s you are in for a longer recovery. There are 6weeks where you cant do much of anything not even drive.
My first c/s was an emergency c/s after going through hours and hours of labour only to find that bubs was stressing and I was closing at 8cm dialated. The recovery from that c/s was painful and long.
My next two were via c/s too, (the recovery not as bad as the first) and If I was able I would have wanted to have a natural birth only because of what a hard time I had with the recovery from the first c/s and also that when my last one was born by c/s I was informed that I have too much scarring and that the bleeding was hard to stop.
How many bubs would you like to have? Would you be willing to try labouring first before having a c/s. Would your DR let you try and at your word give you the c/s if you felt you couldnt continue? Your BM may not come through properly either, it happened with my last two where my milk wasnt that great. With my second c/s, It took a bit longer to feel conncected to my litle girl, and wonder if it had anything to do with having a general aneasetic (being asleep, rather then awake for her birth)

EVen with everything I have mentioned about my experience with the c/s, giving birth is an experience in itself and as long as your bub comes to you healthy and safe is the most important thing. No one can make the decision for you, it is a decision you need to make, as you will be the one going through it. The decision you make will be the best for you. No one will blame you for that. You are going to have the most precious gift your little baby which ever way you give birth and thats the most importnant thing.

I too suggest you research abit before you decide.

You need to remember as well, you could have such a quick labour that it would be over as quickly as it started.

Just from my experience too, after my c/s's I was not well enough to hold my babies without some help, and also missed hours after their birth. As for the natural delivieries, I didnt miss a moment.

I wish you all the best of luck with your deicision, and look forward to hearing your birth story. hugs