Your birth sound almost exactly like mine except I got to the 10cm and pushed for an hour only to find that he wouldn?t come out because he was facing the wrong way.

I also felt like you did for quite a few weeks. I loved him but I just couldn?t grasp the fact that this little person was mine and I was his. I can?t pinpoint an exact moment when we started to form a bond but I would say that it was similar to dochlostar when he started to smile and make eye contact. I think it is completely normal for some women. I am not sure if I would have been the same if it was a vaginal birth or not.

Just take your time and don?t put to much pressure on your self. You have just gone through the stress of an induced labour which from personal experience is very stressful plus major surgery not to mention all the hormones bouncing around in your body. Just relax it will come. But I also must say, if you find the feelings really getting on top of you don?t try and deal with it all by yourself. Speak to someone who is qualified to help you.

Lolly