thank you's for the help and sorry for the late reply i was unable to get on the net,
i went back to the doctors yesterday, but said to him firmly that i wanted to know and dont just tell me worry about it later, he had a look at my scar, said it is healing nicly now, there wouldnt be any harm if i fell pregnant, but i would be advised to have another csection, and not try to have a natural, but the pregnancy itself shouldnt cause any complications. but due to my prev loss's and then isabelle, he said i wouldnt be monited very closly like a high risk pregnancy, even though it might not be high risk, so if there were complications they will find it early rather then later. but he said i also might have problems concieving after the complications ive had from CS, i didnt like that, as with all my babys i have concieved right away. but now its just a matter of getting my partner to agree after all this he doesnt want to try anymore, thanks everyone for a help xox