thank you's for the help and sorry for the late reply i was unable to get on the net,
i went back to the doctors yesterday, but said to him firmly that i wanted to know and dont just tell me worry about it later, he had a look at my scar, said it is healing nicly now, there wouldnt be any harm if i fell pregnant, but i would be advised to have another csection, and not try to have a natural, but the pregnancy itself shouldnt cause any complications. but due to my prev loss's and then isabelle, he said i wouldnt be monited very closly like a high risk pregnancy, even though it might not be high risk, so if there were complications they will find it early rather then later. but he said i also might have problems concieving after the complications ive had from CS, i didnt like that, as with all my babys i have concieved right away. but now its just a matter of getting my partner to agree after all this he doesnt want to try anymore, thanks everyone for a help xox
firstly im so sorry for the loss of your little girl that sounds like such a hard battle
im going through a slightly similar situation, i gave birth to our son at 38 weeks, he was born 'sleeping' and right now it's been 3 weeks and im left with no baby, and i physically NEED a baby, it's the hardest feeling.....
i was lucky to have a natural birth though. i did have a c/s with DS #1, and i know that the recovery was pretty hard. he was 9 months when i fell pregnant with DD, and my hospital offered me a VBAC, which turned out great. but i can understand how you might want another c/s, or the hospital might want you to have another one.
i also understand your DH's thoughts as well, mine is a little bit at that stage as well, just doesn't want to think about another baby yet. all i can say is, if your DH is as understanding as mine, just tell him how you're feeling. what you're going through. what you're scared of and what you want. i think it's nice to talk about it all....
i really hope things get easier for you soon, so sorry for your loss, and i wish you all the best
I'm so sorry for everything you have been through butterfly,
I had a bad infection after my CS with my DD1, I was in no way way trying to conceive DD2 but fell pregnant with her barely less then 3 mths later (lovely surprise). I had a pretty normal pregnancy, appart from both being breach but that wouldnt have anything to do with this. Infact this pregn was easier & more enjoyable then DD1. and my 2nd Cs was in no way related to my previous cs or the trouble i had with the infection.
Good luck with getting your DP to agree, I hope everything works out perfectly for you!
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that sounds like such a hard battle 
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