firstly im so sorry for the loss of your little girl that sounds like such a hard battle

im going through a slightly similar situation, i gave birth to our son at 38 weeks, he was born 'sleeping' and right now it's been 3 weeks and im left with no baby, and i physically NEED a baby, it's the hardest feeling.....

i was lucky to have a natural birth though. i did have a c/s with DS #1, and i know that the recovery was pretty hard. he was 9 months when i fell pregnant with DD, and my hospital offered me a VBAC, which turned out great. but i can understand how you might want another c/s, or the hospital might want you to have another one.

i also understand your DH's thoughts as well, mine is a little bit at that stage as well, just doesn't want to think about another baby yet. all i can say is, if your DH is as understanding as mine, just tell him how you're feeling. what you're going through. what you're scared of and what you want. i think it's nice to talk about it all....

i really hope things get easier for you soon, so sorry for your loss, and i wish you all the best