Derailed as it may be, the site's attitudes were brought into it I too have thanks and comments for my post.

No-one compromises the site... they add another experience and individual thoughts into any discussion. It's not what's said but how people take it that makes all the mess. Yes some things may not be as thoughtful as could be... we try to keep tabs on that. But we also have to take responsibility over ourselves as adults to calm ourselves down and manage it. You'll get worse in real life - people will outright offend you and say things like - Oh so you had the cheats way out? Or think you're a hero for no drugs eh? Stupid things like that people tell us all the time. That does not and will not happen here - real life is much worse but we react so differently.